Tuesday, July 5, 2011
blog relocation
From here on you can catch me at tumblr
Grace and Peace
Sunday, June 26, 2011
SSN (summer sunday nights) recap 6/26/11
Video used;
http://nooma.com/nooma-sunday-004-rob-bell.php
Great conversations tonight based around how we can easily be the pharisee and how we by default become the face of religion to our friends...
Main focus revolved around how God desires our hearts, not our best attempts at 'religion'.
*If your students were in attendance tonight I encourage you to chat with them about the conversation we had with one another.
Monday, June 20, 2011
language, love and South Mississippi

*disclaimer*
This is by no means a 'diss' of anyone from anywhere in particular.
This is a rant, a struggle and therapy for a present burden.
"If you want to know what is in ones heart, listen to what comes out of their mouth."
Suffice to say I have been doing a lot of observing and listening over the past few weeks as re-entry has begun into a new-but-familiar culture that is my home. The place of my childhood and formative years. The place I am un-shakingly proud of. The place that I hope to call home for many years to come.
I love my new job, my church, my students... I count myself blessed beyond measure.
But I am burdened. Burdened by the words I hear fall so often from others mouths.
I start from a place of inclusiveness. A place of love. I attempt to walk with my savior who showed this world a love like no other. A love that healed lepers, redeemed prostitutes, embraced tax collectors and most of all made a way for All of God's creation to know what life truly is.
I hear things. Words. Words, phrases, labels that divide. Phrases that marginalize, that discriminate. Words that do the exact opposite of what Christ came to do, show and live-out for the whole world to see.
Am I healed of this. No, I am a work in progress but I know what has been confirmed in my heart. Cemented deep within my spirit is a truth that can only be there of the divine - that all of this creation is God's. That the mighty acts of Jesus were not just for some but for all.
If what I am hearing is affirming the hearts of those uttering I must put my head down, get on my knees and know that there is work to be done. Is this a burden - yes. Does it fan the flame of my calling - absolutely. There is work to be done. There is a kingdom to proclaim. There is love to show. May God give me strength to be faithful to his call.
Friday, June 10, 2011
Back in the Saddle Again!!
Moving Company Delivery - check
Internet - check
settled in at new job - check
More 'real' blogs coming soon.
stay tuned
Sunday, May 22, 2011
Turning the Page
In Youth/Student ministry we found ourselves in a season of change. For most of us we are celebrating graduates, welcoming new students into our ministries and for some of us wrapping-up job roles or even employment opportunities (job changes, like myself).
All of this begs the question; How do we facilitate quality, meaningful, God-honoring 'rites of passage'?
If I'm honest this has always been a struggle in my current church setting. I can't pinpoint why but have always assumed it was the hectic culture of the suburbs or the chaotic times of year that these seasons coincide with. We've tried large-scale events with all the fanfare, low-key relational events to encourage intentional community-building and everywhere in-between.
Through all of this I have made some conclusions.
1.) The 'rite-of-passage' must echo the community.
If you are a large group that thrives off of big events - live into it.
If you lead a smaller group focused in community and relationship - live into it.
2.) Lead where your strengths are, let others lead in your weaknesses.
If you aren't the M.C. type with large-scale gifts find someone who is. After all, you're not called to be the only leader for your students. Likewise, if you're the one who is always up front and captivating and your group needs a smaller event, relax, build relationship and move the focus away from the group and into the individuals.
3.) Know you're not going to please everyone.
Face it, our students are all different and respond to different events and enviornments. See point 1.
4.) It's just an event.
I've never known a single event to direct the ongoing ministry for an extended period of time. Weekly worship, small groups, fellowship, service and other things shape the ministry - not an annual event.
5.) Establish the goal - and seek it.
For us, we have promotion events coming up. We ask the community (students) the goal. they define it and they plan how to achieve it with some direction from us. To affirm and honor our graduates we had two main goals; affirmation and appreciation. One week we had the celebration which was all about them and their accomplishments, the next week we let our seniors lead and direct the entire weekly event.
Make no mistake, these 'rites of passage' are important. Don't be like many of us and get lulled by the perpetual rhythm of things. Be intentional. Lead well and finish strong. After all, for us this may be the last or first time we see some of our students.
*for youthministryideas.net
Friday, May 13, 2011
Youth Ministry Trap
As I am still trying to unpack the conversations we had, the learning we shared I find one pervasive element rising from this week - comparison.
I don't think I'm the only one that struggles with this. There were some extremely successful, gifted, challenging folks in the room from around the country. All I could think about was, "Why am I here?" Don't get me wrong - I don't second-guess my calling or my gifts for ministry but I can't help thinking - "Why didn't I think of that idea? That is incredible! How did they pull that off in a large church?"
Truth is, there will always be someone better than me doing ministry - at least in my eyes. But as I have been earnestly praying through this I have found solace in the Grace that meets me in my desire to compare myself to others. I must trust in God's spirit to guide me and lead me where I am. The comparison game is always going to be there, we are human, it is inherent to covet - at least it is for me.
I get the strong sense that God wants us all to know that we have been called to be where we are, to do what we do for the kingdom to honor Him and Him alone. He doesn't compare us to those who make us feel like Charlie Brown.
Am I now trying to win the approval of human beings, or of God? Or am I trying to please people? If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ. Galatians 1:10
Grace & Peace
Monday, May 9, 2011
Things that St. Luke's taught me volume 1
* You don't know it all - and that's ok
Picture this; a young, brash youth worker from the bible-belt gets called-up to the largest UM Church in the Florida Annual Conference. This kid has been trained by a veteran youth worker - had success serving a small-to-mid size church in a pervasively religious small town and thinks that the world is his oyster.
Ha!
Yes, I thought I knew it all - and what I didn't know I would fake-it-till-I-made-it.
This was compounded by personal insecurities with a dash of following one incredible Youth Worker that serves at the largest UM church in the US. (don't get lost in the number rhetoric - just making a point).
St. Luke's helped to lovingly deconstruct my calling. I appreciate it now. Looking back, many persons knew all along I was full-of-it at times but graciously let me realize how little I knew.
How little I knew of theology. How little I knew of tact. How little I knew of leadership. How little I knew of adolescent development, the list could go on and on and on.....
You get the picture.
Thank you St. Luke's United Methodist Church, It was in the arms of your extended Grace I can now say with strength and integrity I don't know it all, and that's ok.
Telos snapshot - May 4th
Message: Jeremy Knight
Brief conversation about the Death of 'bin Laden' (5 minutes)
Proverbs 24:17
Living in tension
God's heart for humanity and resolution of Justice
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Message in a couple sentences:
One of my biggest concerns is the choices/decisions made by adolescents.
Wisdom is available - seek it!
Direction - not intent, determines destination.
Scripture: Proverbs 2:1-15
Music:
Look to You - Hillsong United
Our God - Chris Tomlin
Grace Like Rain - Todd Agnew
Lead me to the cross - Brooke Fraser
You Never Let Go - Matt Redman
Sunday, May 1, 2011
Telos snapshot - April 27th
Message; Jeremy Knight
Scriptures used; Luke 9:21-23 & 1 Peter 1:3-4
Discaimer; I am no academic or theologian - tonight is a brief conversation that barely skims the surface of the depth of this magnificent act and pillar of the Christian faith.
Message in a sentence; The resurrection is a proclamation and Invitation
Proclamation - *God is who 'He' says he is
*Fulfillment of prophecy
*The story is moving
*Proclaiming life, not death
Invitation - *Life, to the full
*Reconciliation of all things
* Redemption
*Victory
*Freedom
Music - All Because of Jesus (Steve Fee)
Fail us Not (1000 generations)
With Everything (Hillsong United)
Happy Day (Steve Fee)
Tuesday, April 19, 2011
Vocational Discipleship pt 2
We, and by that I mean those of us in ministry to students as staff, leaders and parents must do a better job of letting the stories of vocational discipleship be told and heard.
For instance, the greatest ministry volunteers I have ever had the pleasure of serving with work in the secular (I despise that word) or non-church world. They all felt a tug on their heart, submitted to service and God affirmed their gifts while fanning the flame in their hearts to reach students with the good news of Jesus.
These fine folks serve as computer programmers, loan officers, logistics coordinators and homemakers.... but yet they see their vocations as places to be engaged as disciples. Why aren't their stories told?
Today I was reminded about a guy, whom I have never met, but have heard much about. His name is Michael. I know little about him personally, but more-so about what happened when he followed a 'holy discontent' and used his gifts to impact his community while serving the kingdom. His discipleship led him to a vocation that is transforming the lives of folks in Orlando and the surrounding area.
This is just one of many stories we need to tell our students.
www.idignity.org
Wednesday, April 13, 2011
Telos Snapshot - 4/13/2011
open question 2 - What role do our actions play in who we are.?.?
Luke 12:31-34
what we treasure defines our motives, actions and outcomes
open question 3 - what do you treasure?.?.?
Matthew 13:45-46
seek the Kingdom, which transforms our motives, actions and outcomes
Saturday, April 2, 2011
have I told you lately

Wednesday, March 30, 2011
important reminder
Monday, March 28, 2011
Vocational Discipleship pt 1
Wednesday, March 23, 2011
TELOS - snapshot 3/23/2011
Tuesday, March 22, 2011
I haven't forgotten about you
Wednesday, March 16, 2011
My Resignation
It is with a bittersweet heart that I inform you of my recent
resignation from St. Luke's UMC as the Director of NexGen Ministries.
Nan, Leyton and I will be moving back to Mississippi where I will be
serving Main Street UMC in Hattiesburg as the Pastor of Students and
Families beginning June 1, 2011. It has always been a desire of our
hearts to return to a location closer to home in the future although we
did not think that the ‘future’ would be this soon. We are truly
excited about this opportunity and feel very much at peace about this
very difficult decision we have made together. I will continue to serve St. Luke's until late May.
I informed the High School Students Wednesday evening at TELOS
of my resignation. Dave Jans and I will address this news with our Middle School Students Thursday evening at FUEL.
I write you for several reasons. First, I value you as a partner in ministry. I hope with every ounce of my being that you know the incredible affect you have on your students. I have always been aware that I was your partner in this, not that you were my partner- or that our influence is stronger than yours. The truth is that we seek to come along-side you and yours to build Disciples that impact God’s Kingdom.
Your families have helped me ‘grow-up’ as a man, as a minister of the good news of Jesus Christ and most importantly as a disciple. We ask for your continued prayers for our students and leaders, both lay and staff, as they enter a time of seeking God’s desire for NexGen Ministries at St. Luke’s.
The pastoral and lay leadership of the church will be communicating
with the entire congregation next week about my transition and the
process that will begin to ensure that St. Luke's continues to have a
student ministry that is deeply grounded in Christ.
I cannot consider myself anymore blessed than I am to have been able to
serve St. Luke's, your students and your families over the last 4+ years.
I will relish the next few months with you and pray nothing but
blessings over St. Luke's and ministry for the time ahead.
Grace and Peace,
Jeremy
Thursday, February 24, 2011
Telos - snapshot 2/23/2011

Monday, February 21, 2011
The Knight Family: Magic Kingdom with Leyton
Friday, February 18, 2011
Blessed

Wednesday, February 16, 2011
High School parents invited
Telos - more than a snapshot 2/16/2011

If we are honest, we all have the propensity to know what is expected, or what ʻthe
Bible saysʼ..... but we also want to know why....
When we were younger.... Leyton examples (donʼt jump on the couch, donʼt do _____)
most of our learning is experiential - but when it comes to Learning about Sex we
cannot afford to learn the hard way.....
Am I naive enough to believe that I am standing in front of 60 teenage virgins..... no
What I am sure of is that you need to know why not....
Tonight we are going to speak to some of the well-known arguements for sex outside of
marriage... My hope is that you will leave here tonight better equipped for the battle... it
is a battle... no doubt
1.) God created sex - we didnʼt. If we think we know best - think again. We like to
rationalize and personalize our own situations... this is pride... we all know that pride is sin
2.) ʻHaving sex makes you a ʻmanʼ or a ʻwomanʼ
Fellas - character, integrity and respect makes you a man
Ladies - character, respect and integrity makes you a woman
3.) “Itʼs not like Iʼm having intercourse”
Genital contact is sex..... Example story
4.) “Waiting is not healthy” waiting never hurt anyone.
God speaks to a design in the Song of Songs, building blocks (Hebrew; Raya, Ahava, Dode)
5.) “Itʼs just sex”
false, sex has a cost; physical, emotional, social, spiritual
credit card analogy
6.) God gave me this temptation - itʼs cruel (James 1:13-18)
Some Tough Truth
1.) Sex outside of marriage is the greatest way to enjoy worry and fear....
“What if the condom breaks? What if my parents find out?.....etc.....
2.) This has incredible implications on you spiritually. Sex is a spiritual act (in its
intention) 1 Corinthinas 6:18-20..... Disconnection Romans 8:5
Temptation;
THE FURTHER YOU GO, THE FASTER YOU GO
THE FURTHER YOU GO, THE FURTHER YOU WANT TO GO
THE FURTHER YOU GO, THE HARDER IT IS TO GO BACK
Where you draw the line determines;
THE ARENA OF YOUR TEMPTATION
THE INTENSITY OF YOUR TEMPTATION
THE CONSEQUENCES OF GIVING INTO TEMPTATION
We have said all of this to give you this comfort, I couldnʼt say it any better than this
“Out of His boundless love and wisdom, God has given us boundaries for our
protection.”
This is comfort amidst the uncomfortable
Thursday, February 10, 2011
Telos - snapshot 2/9/2011

Monday, February 7, 2011
NexGen Retreat Recap 2/4-2/6

- God's Kingdom is not bound by geography
- God's Kingdom is not easily defined
- Matthew 10:7 & Matthew 6
- Where we see the goodness of God at work in our world by our efforts or otherwise is where we affirm His Kingdom and engage
- Exodus 33 (high school)
- Isaiah 6 (high school)
- John 14 (high school)
- Acts 9 (both MS & HS)
- Optical Illusions illustrations
- Do we have scales on our eyes?
- We must ask for the eyes of Christ so that we may see more clearly His kingdom
- Matthew 5 (high school)
- Why and what must we 'be' in order to engage God's kingdom
- Acts 9 (middle school)
- you're not too young to make a difference
- bystander effect (stop expecting others to do it for you)
- God is making his appeal through us (2 Corinthians 5:20)
- we all have a choice
- we choose constantly between the world and the Kingdom
- Dave shared his story of life in the world and the movement into a life in the Kingdom
- Students urged to choose
- Freedom is Here - Hillsong United
- Fail us Not - 1000 generations
- Where the Spirit of the Lord is - chris tomlin
- Love is Here - Tenth Avenue North
- Desert Song - Brooke Fraser
- Brighter - Brandon Grissom
- Revelation Song - Kari Jobe
- Our God - Chris Tomlin
- The time has come - Hillsong United
- You'll come - Hillsong United
- Give me Your Eyes - Brandon Heath
- With Everything - Hillsong United
- How He Loves - John Mark Mcmillan
- You Can Have Me - Sidewalk Prophets
- Friday night 'Muck-Fest' Huge, nasty, messy free-for-all with 100 students, water bombs, florida snowballs, shaving cream etc..
- Seeing our '2 groups' become one at saturday night worship
- Having a middle schooler say they wanted more small group time! Praise God!
- Sunday Morning closing worship with our church family! the attic was standing room only with over 300+ students, parents and leaders! (Don't tell the fire marshall)

Wednesday, February 2, 2011
Telos - snapshot 2/2/2011
Friday, January 28, 2011
time well spent

present high school teaching series
